Ever had a friend that had a lot more money from you? Perhaps they didn't earn it?
And did you notice that your life really wasn't getting any better because they were your friend? In fact you might have even felted slighted?
What is going on there? It isn't too hard to figure out.
That person from the non working class has a different coping system than you do! Yours is likely based on problem solving ability. Theirs is based on something that isn't going to work for you. Even if you had as much money as they did because you somehow earned it.
So I can't quite articulate what that coping system that they have is. But you can figure it out? Kind of a push system? Pay to have a round peg pushed through a square hole system? You see, didn't really solve the problem did it.
Perhaps their coping system is one of no worries? How is that going to work for you? End up being the gal Forest Gunk (intentional misspelling to add emphasis and avoid confusion) impregnated standing on the balcony ready to go?
Most of us who are smart realize right away. "I can't relate to that person."
© 2021 Thomas Murphy
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