The Spoiled Child Does not know the difference between needs and wants 02 08 2014

The spoiled child does not know the difference between its needs and its wants.  Small text: I found characteristic listed here:

Compare and contrast the following two sentences:

a.       I need this person to work for me.

b.      I want this person to work for me.

For the purpose of analysis we will say that  a person labeled “A” said those two sentences.

Both sentences indicate a lack of personal capability of those who would say them?  So they are both said by the spoiled child that grew up to be an adult that never cognitively changed from being a spoiled child. 

Now contrast those first two sentences to this next sentence and assume that the concept implied in this next sentence does not apply to this article.

c.        I want this young man to work for me so that he can learn a trade and independently support a family as I do!  {Almost unheard of today isn’t it!!!)

I don’t know who to attribute the sentence “The spoiled child does not know the difference between its needs and its wants” because I found it on a blogsite and believe it to be copied there.  Just to say it was not me!

Contrast A and B to this sentence:

“I need to get an academic college education so I can support my own family some day,” “A” would never say that!

Now who would say something like this?  “If I was your father I wouldn’t have any idea how to make you happy!”   ????

1.       A father of a spoiled child?

2.       A parent of a spoiled child?

3.       That which sired a spoiled child; a biological father of a spoiled child?

4.       A man who compares himself to a father that was himself a spoiled child?

5.       A man who has no children and has abandoned the American Dream?

6.       A man who knows it takes a living wage to raise a family?

7.       A man who knows how to get along with people?

8.       A man that doesn’t know how to get along with people?

9.       A rich man that would advocate someone else raise his children?

10.   A poor man that would never advocate someone else be allowed to raise his biological children?

When George Bush Sr. advocated family values he was never able to properly articulate what it meant???

Let’s try here;

1.       “I want my son to be President like me.”

2.       “I need my son to be President like me.”

Now here is the point, “Want and need” become the exact same motivation as to a third concept a responsible man would think of. 

3.       “I want the best man to lead my country!”

Because the spoiled child does not know the difference want and need always mean the same thing to it!  And what is it really indicative of when you cannot tell the difference between want and need?

The point being this, the person that uses the terminology of numbers 1 and 2 says they want to be something when they really need it to make them happy and they should never be allowed to have it!

1.       The spoiled child reaches the age of adulthood and needs something they shouldn’t have!

2.       The spoiled child reaches adulthood and wants something it shouldn’t have!

3.       The spoiled child reaches adulthood and goes to all means to get what it wants but shouldn’t have!

4.       The spoiled child grown to adulthood is only made happy by getting what it should never have.

5.       He wants something he doesn’t need and can’t truly achieve.

6.       Therefore the spoiled child can only be made happy in adulthood by depriving them of their needs!

7.       So what other point is brought right into this?  The spoiled child can only think possessively in terms of people.  And possessing what they have earned and achieved becomes a need to him!

8.       And hence we have the basis of demonic possession!  Who is it that would seek to have what it cannot achieve?

And that is the problem with democracy and wealth and drug based birth defects!

Now men and women who expect to be fathers and mothers want to be fathers and mothers!  The man says, “I want all children to be born happy and healthy so therefore “Expectant” fathers should not drink alcohol!

Now here is one final blow.  (Comparing sentences as to analysis of who would say them and who wouldn’t again.)

1.       He didn’t  want to be a father.

2.       He didn’t need to be a father.

3.       But he got a woman pregnant anyway!

Those 3 are sll the same person that

4.       Wants and needs to believe he is a father and yet can never be a true one!

What does he then become motivated to do?

Whatever he is and needs and wants he wants the concept of the solution to that to be given to him because he is a spoiled child!  He wants a Universal Father!  And we first get the term “FATHER” as used in religion from the Catholic Church!  It was meant to be a man who could be trusted!  But we really ended up with “Fathers” that hated children.

But it cannot be because a man is really someone that expects to have children?

But it was to be a step in the right direction wasn’t it?  It takes care of the insult “Son of Man”  They all had the same male as a father instead of being raised in groups by a few female primates!  It tells us that the Romans were indeed well aware of the problem?

Now let’s draw a contrast to number 10 on page one of this article!

Jay Leno had the most popular television program of all time and he didn’t want to have children!  To be honest with you there was something I didn’t like about him.  And it is related to a concept I will call equivalency.

Just because you hear voices does not mean that you are mentally ill.  Let me try and explain it to you.  The Romans beat Jesus Christ a Jew over the head when they crucified him.  John McCain was beaten on the head every day as a POW in Viet Nam?  On what day of that do the Viet Kong declare him to be mentally ill?

Back to the spoiled child.  He needs to believe he is something he can never be.  Hence he violates the rights of those who can!

Now in terms of “No Child Left Behind” the spoiled child has never been left behind!  I would even state that the Great Depression was caused by the spoiled child not wanting to be left behind!  Hence we get the possessive of the works and achievements of other people coming into play again.  Have you ever played a board game with someone that knows they are going to lose and scatters the pieces all over the room before you are allowed to declare victory?  This is a reaction of the spoiled child not being able to create; itself!

Okay there are about 11 more characteristics of a spoiled child that I would like to write about.  But maybe this is enough for awhile.  But when you read all of those how can you not come to the conclusion that the spoiled child isn’t mentally defective!

Thomas Paul Murphy

Originally published on 02 08 2014 at: www.themilwaukeeandwisconsinnews.blogspot.com

Copyright 2014 Thomas Paul Murphy


And doesn't the instance of wounded war veterans from unnecessary wars lead to a greater acceptance of those born with the spoiled birth defects?